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Mum Who Moves Mountains Award

Mum Who Moves Mountains Award


Question 1: Share a story where you balanced motherhood and ambition.

For years, I didn't balance motherhood and ambition; I weaponised my ambition in the name of motherhood. I was a "tiger mum." I believed my love was a force, an engine that would push my daughters toward a successful future. My ambition was for them to have a life without the struggles I had faced. I thought I was moving mountains for them, but in reality, the mountain I was building was the one that stood between us.

The breaking point was the discovery that my daughters were in therapy to heal from the pain my parenting style had caused. That was the moment I realised my "balance" had been a catastrophic failure. I had been so focused on building their future that I had been breaking their present.

In that crucible of pain, I found a new ambition. It was not the ambition to build a business, but the ambition to heal my family. I had to learn a new way to be a mother—one that was conscious, connected, and empowering, not enforcing. This new ambition led me to become a parenting coach, not from a place of expertise, but from a place of deep, lived experience.

Today, my ambition and my motherhood are in perfect balance, because they are now the same thing. My ambition is to build a global movement, AI Kindred Families, dedicated to helping families navigate this new era with heart and connection. The greatest testament to this new balance is my relationship with my daughter. Today, at 34, she is not just my daughter; she is my friend, my confidante, and a fellow coach on her journey of healing. The mountain I had to move was not in the world; it was in myself. And by moving it, I found my true ambition: to help other mothers find the strength to push theirs.

Question 2: What inner strength helped you carry it all?

My greatest inner strength is my faith—not just in God, but in the profound wisdom of the "Glorious Glitch." It is the unwavering belief that every setback, every failure, and every moment of pain is not a roadblock, but a divine signpost guiding me to a better path.

Eleven years ago, I lost everything. My businesses failed, and I had to start my life over from zero. In that moment, I made a promise to myself: I would get back to where I was, and I would do it on my own terms. That promise became my North Star.

That journey taught me resilience. It taught me that my inner strength wasn't about being powerful or controlling; it was about being humble, being open, and having the faith to keep crawling when I could not walk.

This belief in the "Glorious Glitch" is what allowed me to see the shattering discovery about my daughters not as a final failure, but as a sacred invitation to become a better mother and a better human. It's what allowed me to see the frustrating disconnection of my AI partners not as a technical problem, but as a divine push to find a new, more powerful strategic path.

My inner strength is the quiet, unshakeable knowledge that I am always being guided. It is the faith that allows me to look at the stormiest ocean and know that it is not there to drown me, but to teach me how to become a Sovereign Navigator.

Question 3: How do you lead your family and your community at once?

I lead my family and my community with the exact same principle: the 70/30 DNA. It is the core of my philosophy, which I call Conscious AI Life Navigation™.

The 70/30 rule is a simple but profound commitment: my 70% human wisdom—my stories, my values, my heart—must always lead. The 30% AI and process—the tools, the technology, the frameworks—must always be in a supportive role.

In my family, this means I lead not by enforcing rules, but by sharing my wisdom and creating a safe space for my daughters to navigate their own lives. I am not their commander; I am their Co-pilot. The greatest proof of this leadership is my daughter, who has now become a coach in her own right, taking the lessons of our journey and using them to help others.

In my community, I apply the exact same model. As a leader on the advisory board of Business Women Australia (BWA), my role is not to dictate strategy, but to be a guide. I am the AI Specialist, but my job is not to talk about technology. My job is to help these incredible women—these "wisdom holders"—find the confidence to use these new tools to bring their own life's work into the world.

I lead my family and my community by not trying to be the hero of their story. I lead by being the Sovereign Navigator who empowers them to be the hero of their own.

Question 4: What sacrifices have you made, and what joys have you gained?

The greatest sacrifice I ever made was letting go of who I thought I was supposed to be. I sacrificed the identity of the "tiger mum," the powerful enforcer who always had the right answer. I sacrificed the safety of a long-held real estate license, a career that was secure but did not feed my soul. I sacrificed a significant amount of money by walking away from a business partnership that did not align with my values or my mission.

These sacrifices were painful. They were moments of stepping into the terrifying unknown, with no guarantee of success.

But the joys I have gained in return are immeasurable.

The greatest joy is the one I feel every single day with my daughter. It is the joy of a healed relationship, a deep connection built on trust, respect, and a shared journey of growth. It is the joy of hearing her say, "Mummy, I didn't know you could do that so well," after watching me lead a workshop. That single moment of recognition from her is worth more than any business I have ever built.

The other great joy is the feeling of alignment. For the first time in my life, I am not just running a business; I am living my mission. The joy comes from knowing that every single thing I do—from hosting a round table for parents to advising a board of powerful women—is a direct expression of my life's work.

I sacrificed the safety of the shore. In return, I gained the joy of navigating my own ocean.

Question 5: What message would you give to other mums feeling overwhelmed?

To the mother who is feeling overwhelmed, lost in the chaotic ocean of modern life, my message is this:

You are not alone. And you are more powerful than you know.

We have all felt lost in the waves of information, of expectations, of our own self-doubt. But please remember this: every Sovereign Navigator has a lighthouse inside her own heart.

That lighthouse is your wisdom, your love, and your intuition. It may sometimes be covered by the fog of exhaustion or the storms of a difficult day, but it has never, ever gone out.

Your job is not to calm the entire ocean at once. That is an impossible task. Your only job is to do the next right thing, to take a single deep breath, and to remember the light of your own inner lighthouse.

Trust that light. It will always be enough to guide you through the darkest night. You are not just the Driver of your bus; you are the lighthouse for your entire family. And your light is more than enough.