
đ„ Breaking the Chains: Women, Addiction, and the Path to Empowerment
By Naomi Stockman
Licensed Therapist & Depression and Anxiety Specialist
Clinical Hypnotherapist & Transformation Therapist
www.mylocalhypnosis.com.au
Addiction isnât a weaknessâitâs a signal your pain needs a voice.
Addiction doesnât always look the way we imagine.
Itâs not just syringes and back alleysâ
Itâs âwine oâclockâ that creeps earlier in the day.
Itâs the need to control foodâŠ
The scroll through screens to escapeâŠ
The secret rituals that soothe unspoken pain.
For many women, addiction isnât just a battle with a substance or behaviourâ
Itâs a mirror reflecting deeper wounds:
trauma, shame, disconnection, and the endless pressure to hold it all together.
đż Why Addiction Looks Different for Women
In my practice as a Clinical Hypnotherapist in Western Sydney, I see a pattern again and again:
đ Women internalise pain.
Weâre taught to be:
Thin
Nice
Strong
The good mum, partner, friend, boss, daughter
All while staying silent.
This internal tension builds, and coping mechanisms followânaturally.
âWhen youâre experiencing anxiety, depression, or PTSDâit feels awful.
So if something brings even temporary reliefâŠ
Of course it makes sense that addiction might develop.â
Youâre not broken.
Youâre responding to a world that told you to suffer quietly.
That ends now.
đ Behind Every Coping Mechanism Is a Woman Who Deserves Compassion
Even without current life stress, many of us grew up in the 60s, 70s, 80s or 90s here in AustraliaâŠ
And statistics showâweâve probably survived a lot just to get to this point.
Addiction in women is often wrapped in complex trauma:
Childhood abuse
Emotional neglect
Toxic relationships
Weâve become experts at masking painâ
And for some, it takes years or decades before anyone notices somethingâs wrong.
đ« Shame & Secrecy: The Hidden Burden
Addiction carries a stigma.
And for women, especially mothers, that stigma hits harder.
Men face less judgment.
Women? Weâre expected to be the stable ones. The carers. The glue.
But the truth is:
Asking for help is the most courageous act of all.
Healing is not weakness.
Itâs self-respect.
Itâs reclaiming yourselfâstep by step, even after hitting rock bottom.
âWomen donât just battle addictionâthey battle silence, stigma, and the pressure to keep it all together.â
đ Hypnotherapy: Healing From the Inside Out
Addiction is not just physical.
Itâs driven by whatâs stored deep inside:
Core beliefs
Emotional patterns
Past trauma
This is where Hypnotherapy shines.
Rather than simply managing cravings, we go deeper:
Rewiring subconscious beliefs
Releasing shame and guilt
Reconnecting with inner wisdom and self-worth
Iâve witnessed women change not through punishmentâŠ
But through self-awareness, kindness, and compassionate transformation.
đŹ Addiction Is Not the End. It Can Be the Beginning.
We need to start acknowledging:
The struggles we hide
The coping weâve normalised
The bravery it takes to heal
If youâre a woman questioning whether your habits have become harmful,
Please hear this:
You are not too far gone. You are not stuck.
Even if it feels impossible right nowâŠ
You were born to rise.
âRecovery is not about becoming someone new.
Itâs about remembering who you were before the world got to you.â
Letâs break the chainsâ
Not just of addiction, but of shame, silence, and self-abandonment.
đ All You Need Is a âWhyâ⊠and the Will to Begin
âHealing starts when we stop hidingâand start remembering who we are.â
If you feel the nudge, Iâd love to support you.
You can connect with me via DM in the YTG40+ Facebook Group
or visit my website to learn more about hypnotherapy, addiction recovery, and emotional healing.
Naomi Stockman
đ www.mylocalhypnosis.com.au
đ Clinical Hypnotherapist & Transformation Therapist
đŹ Facebook: Find me in the YTG40+ Community